I'm loving the game, but some people are just frustrating to play online. I try to play as close to real hockey as possible. I clear the puck out the zone and occassional break out when short handed, cycle the puck on the PP to set up the shot from the point, and yes, I will go for a one timer if I'm on a 2 on 1 and the other guy is wide open. Some of these guys online constantly go for cheap goals, ad one guy last night literally played keep away and never crossed the red line for the last 10 minutes of the 3rd period while he was ahead 1-0. I can see protecting a lead, but that is just being an asshole in my books. I was going to quit the game, but I don't like quitting online games as I think its a cowards way out. I will stay playing till the end if I'm winning 5-0 or losing 5-0.
Luckily, I have a pretty good system for weeding out the cheap players. I simply quit the match if the other guy picks Pittsburgh, Washington or San Jose off the bat. Nothing against those teams, but the cheap players flock to them since they are offensively loaded.