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Yeah, that guy sounds really sketchy. I'd be pretty leery. Good scammers can easily co-opt lingo from whatever area they're scamming so that doesn't really guarantee anything re: them being a hobbyist/collector.Good thing I was the designated driver tonight and not drinking. Dude PM'd my personal Facebook in regards to one of my higher end listings (#'7 Reebok logo National Treasures Brees card BGS 9) and typed out 4 other listings (all graded) he was interested in doing a bulk deal. To give an idea, I was an hour from home in a bar for my friend's band. I was literally 10 minutes from where the guy wanted to meet but explained to him I'd have to run home and back (and then home again) and I'm the DD for a handful of people. We go back and forth on price while I'm also checking his profile and it's completely null and void of anything, just a name that's either a first/middle or his last name is also a first name (totally normal but had my attention). He was also using common hobby lingo like "comps" to justify his end of negotiating so he seems to be in the hobby, be it as a collector or a flipper, he checks out from a vocabulary stand point.
After I convinced him 10pm on a Saturday in the New Orleans metro area wasn't happening, I erred toward the side of caution and threw out, "let's meet at the Jefferson Sheriff's office parking lot, they have a 'safe zone' for internet transactions." He was cool with that.
Right before I put my phone in my pocket to start the drive to drop off and then home, I see one last message, "Of course, I'm going to have to inspect them closely before I put any money in your hands." It just sat weird with me the whole way home, I get that slab integrity is a concern for collectors and is why I've migrated toward the Myslabs platform for the bulk of my deals. We have to show clear evidence that the slab is good and it eliminates buyer disputes. I use the same images on Facebook marketplace and ebay listings. The only difference is the list price or the amount of wiggle room I offer based on the platform's cut.
I get home and I start googling his name but it's literally as common as "Robert John" or "William Robert" and just throwing "New Orleans" and the little suburbs in the area of the city will not narrow it down. I finally sent screenshots to five different people of different backgrounds, my boss who's an artist when he's not telling me what to do, a retired cop, my wife who is in HR, a professional musician (not the one we saw tonight), another collector, and my friend that acts as my heavy when I have to go into unfamiliar situations. All responded within a minute to not make that drive tomorrow with varying reasons all going back to "red flag" and my boss saying, "he probably has counterfeit bills" and that's why he wasn't worried about ripping me off in the SO parking lot. Someone in my text spam found a guy matching the name in the metro area that's an MMA coach but otherwise nothing to indicate he collects...but if he's using a burner account for his hobby, that might be why there's no mention on his main page.
I'm not comfortable going there and I'm not comfortable bringing anyone else along in case it is some shady shit. I've messaged him that I "got called into work, earliest I can do is Wednesday." If he's okay with waiting I'll feel a little better. If not, my brain circles back to him pressuring me to do the deal within a few hours of initial contact.
Unrelated: I apparently was giving my cell # out to people at the October 2022 card show because a guy called me on Friday looking to move 6k cards. He sent me a few photos and there's some good stuff in there but nothing worth buying as part of that many cards, I'm not going to cherry pick the guy's stuff like that, and I think he's looking to move everything in one big deal. I don't have the room to take on something of that size nor the energy to convince my wife that I can turn a profit on these 6,000 cards in addition to the other x,000 I've accumulated in the time I've donated my last batch to whatever nonprofit is willing to accept them this time. Hell I still have 90 Nintendo games and 3 systems in my card room that I'm supposed to clean and get working for a coworker, a paper to write for school, and a 2 hour presentation to write for an April speech. And book card shows to move these pokemon cards I took on. Someone just dig a hole and throw me in it 1996 In Your House: Buried Alive style.
Yeah... as bad as eBay is for fees and places like COMC are solid (ish?) alternatives, there's also a large reason why savvier collectors/sellers don't use places like Facebook Marketplace, Instagram, Tik Tok, etc. because it's so much easier to get scammed on those places even when you're bright enough about the tactics used. Harder to get recuperated too it seems on those places if you're scammed or a deal goes really sour.6k card wants $300 per our conversation this morning. Had the above deal worked I might actually have met up with him.
This morning I fell for a few classic blunders on a multi-rookie graded lot when the guy asked where I live. I never specify town I just say southern LA. Hindsight is he googled cities in the south of this state and landed on one 2 hours from me and picked an address off Zillow or similar. At that point I'm still a gullible mark and willing to either drive or mail out tomorrow. He asks for my paypal handle and sends me a screenshot of it with no avatar. I send him back the right one with my avatar and he sends it back, I'm still marked. I know not to give my phone # but my email seemed safe, it is connected to my paypal, and so he asked for email not phone #. I then get the spoofed email that he overpaid by $200 and he asked if I could refund it. I said I was emailing paypal fraud to verify, he was cool with that and then I get another spoof email saying the last email is legit. These are coming from Paypal's international Gmail account. Somewhere in there was a handful of "using my brother's account/address/daughter is sick" stuff that would have tipped an awake me off but I was clearing cobwebs.
Once I saw the "gmail" I asked my friend in that town if she recognized the address that guy gave me for mailing, she said its a part of town she avoids. Their tax assessor website records has it as owned by an investment group, but honestly the guy wasn't after the item, just the $200 refund. Whoever finds the cards, finds the cards or they get sent back to me. He started calling me on messenger's phone call gimmick and I declined it. Once I figured out, which took too long honestly, I reported him.
Literally 2 scammers in 12 hours with 2 different approaches. But yeah ebay is at 14% fees and a lot of collectors, new and potential, aren't up to date on the alternatives so FB marketplace is a good way to make new connections (and hopefully new collectors) but two in 12 hours has really zapped my mood.
I think a lot of those folks are starting to get a little desperate as prices continue to fall (with vintage being the next domino to tumble IMO) and are texting any dealers they see assuming everybody can just liquidate $5K+ like the big spenders.Also, a guy from the big convention randomly texted me a card he's trying to sell, $10,000 "or better offer."
I might be a lot of things but I'm not cold call/texting strangers to move five figure cards. I must have really put off the wrong vibe if he thinks I'm that guy.